Baba Ali just debunked the Tomassiyeen

I know that you come from a position of knowledge, actual hard statistics with your company half hour dean. There's two types of list that brothers have. There's these brothers who go on these dating apps where they're swiping. Those brothers number one most important thing for them is with the way you look, and number two is the way you look, and number three most important thing is the way you look. Those are the top three things that would take brothers care about.

Now a brother who's looking to get married, he is not looking to marry his girlfriend. So all those sisters who are talking to his brothers, and one day, this is all gonna become halal. No. It's not. So there are brothers who are gonna be looking at you as a girlfriend, a temporary relationship, whatever, whatever.

And if this how you're gonna market yourself by making it all about your looks, that's what you're gonna be attracting. So if you're complaining that I keep finding brothers about this, that's because you are putting yourself out there as a girlfriend material even though you think I'm doing a wife material. Because a brother who's looking for a wife, the number one thing he's not looking for I mean, number one thing he's looking for is not physical attraction. Number one thing he's looking for is personality and compatibility. The number two thing is attraction.

So don't get me wrong, but they still find physical attraction extremely important, but it's no longer number one on their list. But if you ask brothers what's the number one thing, I like her personality. That that clicks. I'm looking for a wife now. Let let me tell you guys brothers and how men think.

When they're looking at a wife, they're thinking, if I have a daughter, I want her to grow up just like her. That's how they're thinking.

If you're paying attention, Baba Ali just destroyed Tomasin red pill ideas from start to finish in this interview. He's telling you that men have one set of standards for dating and promiscuous sex and another set of standards for marriage. When it comes to marriage, a woman's personality, her compatibility with him, which is going to include her education level, her intelligence, her class background, her everything, of course, and her deen. All of those things matter first to a man when he's picking a wife, not just her youth, beauty, and fertility, which is what the Thomasine tell you. They say that the only thing that a woman has to offer is how she looks, is her beauty and her youth.

And what Baba Ali just told you from the statistics off of his own matrimonial website is that that's not all men are looking for. But the are telling you that that's what men are looking for for marriage and they're trying to convince girls that that's all they have to think about. And Baba Ali just told you that for sisters, if you believe that and you think that's all you have to be, you're not gonna find a husband.