The Tomassiyeen Guide to Marrying a High Value Man

High value men are primarily interested in marrying a woman for her youth, beauty, and fertility. If a girl wants to marry a rich man, she should not waste her time pursuing higher education or a career but should instead focus on cultivating her femininity and sexual attractiveness and get married as young as possible. High value men don't care about your professional or educational credentials. They marry down. So all you have to do is be the most attractive woman in the low or middle class and a high value man will be happy to snap you up and elevate you to the upper echelons of society if you're just pretty enough and agreeable enough.

Okay. Foolproof plan. Right? Well, there may be a few bumps in that road. First of all, the overwhelming majority of very wealthy men are already married, about 86%, and they've been married for a long time, usually since well before they earned their first million which is on average around the age of 50.

They also tend to marry, well, other rich people. In fact, the only segment of Western society where the marriage rate has either remained stable or increased since the nineteen fifties is among the affluent. The rich marry each other. Oh, and also they tend to marry women whose educational qualifications mirror their own. Women with college degrees have a marriage rate at around seventy percent and they are half as likely to get divorced.

Women with nothing but a high school diploma have the lowest rate of marriage and the highest rate of having children out of wedlock. Most college educated women actually marry younger than other women, which is not what the Tomasiin assume, and most professional women actually adhere more to traditional gender roles than less educated non working women. So if a woman wants to marry a rich man and she's not already rich herself, she will almost inevitably have to delay marriage and meet someone at work after she's worked at the job long enough to start interacting with men who are in executive or ownership positions rather than, say, her high school sweetheart who is unlikely to be earning a 6 or 7 figure income as a teenager. So aside from almost everything that the Tomasiin get wrong in their advice to women about marriage, they do get one thing right. High value men, high income men are primarily interested in women who they believe will be good mothers.

But the bad news is that that usually includes the woman's educational qualifications, her socioeconomic background, and her familiarity with the lifestyle of the wealthy, as well as having an understanding of the ways of business and investing. So I'm afraid it turns out that being young, pretty, and fertile is not really the golden ticket that red pillars seem to think it is.