Feminism & Red Pill Theory are infections of Wahn
When you have a false concept about what constitutes success, the real danger isn't that you will succeed in something that is ultimately useless. The real danger is that you won't even realize it when you are actually a failure. If you don't know what real triumph is, you also don't know what real ruin is. So you may discover too late when you're already ruined. The most dangerous ideological trend that threatens to warp our approach to life and our understanding of our existence is not feminism or red pill theory, but materialism.
You will notice that both feminism and red pill theory operate within strictly materialistic paradigms, competition for worldly status, wealth, opportunity, and access to one or another form of privilege. There's no akhirah in their paradigms, and there is no Allah. They are both about getting men and getting women what they want in the dunya. Ultimately, any mentality like this is oppressive and disempowering. These are ideologies that infect the heart with Wahen, love of dunya and fear of death.
They try to attach your heart to this life and increase your craving for it. They call this being on your purpose, being on your grind, becoming the best version of yourself. But what it all comes down to is chasing wealth, status, and power. This chasing makes you weak, easy to control, easy to manipulate, and easy to exploit. As long as you are following your earthly, worldly desires and wants, you will always be vulnerable to those who can gratify them for you.
It cannot be dismissed out of hand the significance of the fact that these are Western secular ideologies. They emerged from cultures that prioritize the present life over the Akhirah, and it's a tendency that runs through every aspect of Kufr based cultures. Corporations are obsessed with quarterly profits over sustainable economies. The pharmaceutical industry is obsessed with immediate symptom relief instead of cures. Politicians are obsessed with weekly polls and election cycles over actually wise and sustainable policies.
And consumers, of course, are obsessed with instant gratification over savings and long term financial stability. Short sightedness is the dominant feature of Western civilization. It has created a society with no attention span and no patience. That is the essence of materialistic culture, and it means basically the willingness to sacrifice the future for the present, the akhirah for the dunya, and this is largely how they approach relationships. This approach to life creates a personality that can easily betray trust, lie, indulge in sinful acts, and ignore the consequences of one's behavior.
It is a personality that cannot endure suffering, that fears loss and can be therefore easily dominated and controlled. A defining feature of Kufr is shortsightedness. They do not understand, and perhaps we are forgetting, that the most practical and effective approach to life and to relationships is to maintain a farsighted cognizance of the keeping the dunya in perspective and focusing not on gratifying our own desires and ambitions, but instead upon pleasing Allah and achieving his aims for our life. Western secular approaches to life originate from a fundamentally wrong notion about the dunya and our role in it, and we can gain nothing by adopting these ideas except the same profound loss and ruin which they call success and prosperity.
تمّ بحمد الله