Men cannot be "feminized"
You know what's ironic is that in the West, you have sort of two groups that advocate for, the existence of gender fluidity. One is the, obviously, the the woke people, the woke side, and the LGBT and all of that. But the other one is the red pill guys. You know, the the the uber macho type guys who are continuously talking about the feminization of men. You apparently believe that men can become like women and not real men.
So you're actually advocating the same thing, that gender is fluid, that men can become like women and women can become like men. Both groups are wrong. A man is a man, and men have all different types of qualities and all different forms of expression. But at the end of the day, he's still a man. All of the qualities that are in women are in men, but all of the qualities that are in men are not in women.
So when we talk about somebody being a real man, what we mean is usually that you're supposed to suppress the qualities in you that exist in women because they do that. You're not supposed to do that because then there's like an imbalance in the world, in society. If women are manifesting their normal innate natural qualities and then men are also expressing those same qualities, then there's an imbalance. So men are supposed to manifest or or focus on manifesting the qualities that they have that women don't have. Therefore, there is a balance.
But that doesn't mean men don't have those qualities. And if they choose to manifest those qualities, that doesn't make them less of a man. It's just inappropriate. That's all. There are things that men can do, and we're not even talking about the the physical action of doing it, but the mental and the spiritual, the emotional ability to do some of the difficult things that only men do.
Women can't do those things. And it's not just about that they don't have the muscles or the bone density or whatever. They don't have the internal qualities to be able to force themselves to do those things. You know, the the the typical things that you associate with, you know, hard labor or dangerous activities. Women aren't built for that.
Men are built for that. However, men can also like to go shopping. Right? Men can like to cook. Men can like to knit.
Men can do all of those things. None of that makes them not a man or negates their masculinity. However, it's not appropriate for a man to manifest the qualities of himself that are also in women because women can only manifest those qualities. So the qualities that are in a woman that are also in a man, she should be the one to manifest those and not him. He should suppress those.
So stop talking about really, you're advocating gender fluidity when you say that men can be feminized. They can't be. A man is a man. It doesn't matter. But what you mean to say is that he is overemphasizing in his expression the feminine qualities in himself that are best and only appropriately manifested in women.
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