Red Pill Waswasa

Assalamu alaikum. I saw one of these, you know, sort of weepy, whiny posts of the red pill variety that's, you know, a quote that's supposed to be a truism. And it said, when a man gains a lot of money, he dreams about providing the best things in the world to his wife. When a woman gains a lot of money, she thinks she doesn't need a man. Okay?

This is the hypergamy and the idea that women are just materialistic, money grubbing, you know, gold digging mercenaries. But don't take things as a truism that are that are statistically provable or disprovable. Over the last four decades, women have increased their participation in the workplace, and their economic opportunities have increased, and there's a larger percentage of women who have high incomes than there ever was before. Over the last four decades, women in the top 10% of earners, their rate of marriage has increased, not decreased. They're not all single.

While rates of marriage have decreased in all other economic sectors, in the top percentile of our numbers among women, their rate of marriage has increased. So not true. The hypergamy theory, the red pill theory is all based on what men want to believe about women. For whatever reason, they're unsuccessful in their relationships. I don't know.

But what I know is that it's not based on the truth. What the the feeling that I get is that the most of the red pill guys have a cacophony of going on in their heads at all times about women. It's like a choir of making in their ears at all times about women. And so they think the worst about women. They are insulting to women, they're defamatory to women, they have a resentment towards women, that's what comes across.

And the fact that they're willing to just lie about data that can be substantiated or disproved, they just lie about it. I mean, did you see one of the things that they use all the time is they say that 20% of men are have access to 80% of the women. Now we're talking about Kufar. So they'll say that 80% of the women are literally having sex with 20% of the men. You know what that's based off of?

That's based off of a Tinder, the app Tinder, their data of women who swipe right or left on a profile. So they find 20% of the men on Tinder attractive, and they extrapolate from that that only 20% of the men are having sexual relationships with 80% of the women. You think that's science? You think that's a praxology? That's a study?

That's an actual legitimate academic level study? Swiping right or left, do you have any idea how meaningless that is as a metric? It's ridiculous. But you want to believe it, so you just propagate these lies as if they're facts. And then you turn it into a philosophy about male magnanimity and women's mercenary nature.

This is shaitanic. This is from shaitan trying to cause discord between men and women between Bani Adam, Banati Adam, Yani, the sons and daughters of Adam. Allah made us for each other. Don't hate each other. Don't think badly about each other.

You see the way it works, if you think badly of women, you're only gonna end up with bad women, which reflects on you because Allah says the good for the good, the bad for the bad. So if you're gonna end up with a bad woman, then that says something about you that's reflective of you. And there's no way that you're gonna end up with a good woman if you think ill of women. If you think all women are hypergamous, you're gonna end up with a hypergamous woman. If you think all women are gold diggers, you're gonna end up with a gold digger, which means that you're not a man of value in the sight of Allah or in any normal human context.

You're not a man of value. You only consider yourself your bank account because that's all that the kind of woman that you wanna get values in you. So that's all you have to build. You have to build your bank account, not your virtue, not your character, not your imam, not your knowledge, not anything else. Just your bank account and your social standing.

So you're gonna end up with a woman who only values those things. You think ill of women, you get a bad woman, and that reflects on you the quality of man that you are. Shaitan is playing with you, Yani. Iblis is playing with you, and you think that you're wise. This is not wisdom.

It's not even academic level research. It's ridiculous. Leave it, brothers. You're too smart for that.